So, I have this guy that I’ve been talking to for like a month. We’re not dating yet because we met online, and he said he can’t ask me out till we see each other physically. We’re planning to meet this December. My values, beliefs, family values, societal values, and everything else align with his, hence the feelings I’m having for him (not deep, though). I think it’s the same for him because he told his mum about me and my family. But the issue is, this guy is quite nonchalant and very free-spirited.
Whenever I try to point out something he did or said that bothers me, he makes fun of it and doesn’t take it seriously. It’s actually making me lose interest. He even jokingly mentioned that we’re in the talking stage and asked why I’m “harassing” him with questions about not picking my calls. Trust me, I wasn’t harassing him—I was just trying to know why he wasn’t picking up. Am I giving too much energy, or is he simply not that interested?
Also Read: Is All This Worth Breaking Up For?