So I’m dating a guy that already has a girlfriend. When he asked me out, I knew he already had a girlfriend because we were friends before then, but I didn’t mind because his girlfriend isn’t in Lagos and I had just come out of an abu$ive relationship. He was there for me during that difficult time, so I developed feelings for him. But now I hate it. I’m so jealous. He said he loves me and we spend most of our time together and talk every day, but I hate being the side chick. Last week was his birthday. Everybody posted him and he reposted their posts except mine. He even reposted the other girl’s own and just said thank you to me. I wrote a long epistle and mixed our videos together. Everybody was doing “aww aww” but he just said thank you. I love him so much and he loves me too, but so many times he does things that remind me that I’m not really his girlfriend and it hurts me. I know I will be roasted and it’s okay, ‘cause I also tell myself every day that I am foolish. But right now, I’m in a state of dilemma.
He said he hasn’t promised her marriage and anything can happen. I’ve tried to leave so many times but he always begs me to stay, saying nobody knows what the future holds. I want you guys’ genuine opinion and thoughts please. What would you advise?
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