I have a boyfriend, he’s morally upright, physically good-looking, tall, and handsome. Well-spoken, successful man, but I think he’s stingy or has frugal spending habits. I’m in debt ’cause I invested in a business to better my life. I thought it would yield fast, but it isn’t, and I’m supposed to pay my debt back in like a week. I’ve been worried sick because of it. I currently have a good business, but because of the economy, I doubt it’ll settle my debt completely because of the time frame. My boyfriend called me today, and my eyes were swollen from having sleepless nights, so he asked what was wrong, and I opened up to him. I’ve been so shy to do it, but I just had to because I’m exhausted. I did, and he just said, “Oh my God, sorry about that.
“Then later in the day, he called again on video call and saw my hair unkempt. He then said, “Why is your hair undone?” I said, “I can’t afford it right now,” and he went ahead to say, “Ehya, sorry,” and changed the topic. He’s rich, really rich. I’m not dependent on him as I solely take care of my siblings, mom, and my life. But now that I’m stuck, is it wrong to feel like my man is supposed to help me, especially because he knows I’m in this debt ’cause of the N3m investment I made? I just feel he’s stingy. Aside from this, he’s sweet and all, and he wants marriage, but is this enough reason to not want to continue? I want an empathetic person, a supportive man ’cause that’s who I am too, or am I sounding entitled?
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