My boyfriend/baby daddy always does these things to me, whenever he helps me with my needs or helps me out of trouble like financial issues, he always uses it to rub my face and tell his family what and what he has done for me. This guy still talks about what he did for me in 2021. If we have any little misunderstanding, he will call his mum and siblings. He always uses abu$!ve words on me. The funniest part is that his mum won’t want me to talk about how I’m feeling. She always says I don’t have respect for him, for someone that insults and sends me home at any given time. This one that happened today—there is this lady I owe money.
Things were difficult for me when I was pregnant, so I told her to calm down for me to pay her off, and I am already gathering the money because she said she didn’t want half payment, so I told her to calm down. The next thing I noticed when my bf came home was to fight with me without asking me questions calmly, and the main reason I hid this from him was because I didn’t want him to help me pay for it. Still, he went ahead to tell his people and use it to insult me. I promise to keep everything I am going through to myself. Now it has happened again. I am just tired. I feel like leaving this young man. I saw shege when I was pregnant, from one slap to another, and my child is very, very small because I just gave birth four weeks ago.
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