I’m in love with a married man with two wives, and he’s a consistent person. We don’t see each other every time due to the understanding I have, and he has gifted me a car and land, but he’s always not having much time for me. He doesn’t even call to greet; only if he wants us to see each other, that’s when he’s going to call. When we see each other, it’s always sex, talk, eat, and drink. For over 3-4 years we have been together. I don’t bother him with money like that but make sure he appreciates me anytime we see each other. He’s a very secretive man. There was a time I disciplined myself to break the love between us.
I got a guy, and everything was going fine. I posted him as my new guy, and the guy is doing everything to make me happy. But suddenly, this married man tells me I’m not scared, Abi, that I have guts. He made sure we both fought before he starts acting normal again (long story). My mum and dad know him already, but I can still amend things myself. Why my parents are not bothered about me marrying a married man is because I’m from a Muslim background, so their belief is as much as he can take good care of me, and I love him, there’s no problem. So, I’m thinking of declaring to him what I want, and if he can’t provide that, we should just end it or make it a business transaction because I’m tired of being stuck in one place waiting for him.
No call, no text, but always watching my status. He’s very secretive, and I tell him everything. I don’t regret knowing him though because I gained a lot from him, but this man is messing with my head. And me too, I’m doing hard girl. I never regret being a hard girl because that’s part of the reason he got me the car and land, which his second wife doesn’t have. Not sure if the second wife has land, but it’s none of my business. I just want to face my own problem. Please advise me. I’m tired of being a hard girl. I can’t wait to see him and scatter everything for him because he’s messing with my head.
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