My boyfriend of three years, after taking my virginity, impregnated another lady and told me he’s keeping the child. I broke up with him because he didn’t feel remorseful; he didn’t even text me until weeks later. How it happened: We had sex early this year because it was a long-distance relationship; we barely see each other. That was our first time having sex (my first sex too), then that same month he had sex with another girl and impregnated her.
J was really hurt and cried for days. Weeks after breaking up with him, he came back apologizing, telling me he was trying to convince the lady to get rid of the baby. That’s why he hadn’t reached out to me, and he wants us back. Despite blocking him, he still texts me from another number. I regret what happened between us and feel used and played by him. I couldn’t tell anyone about it because my friends warned me about him.