I met my now-husband while I was working at a restaurant. He commented on my makeup, telling me how beautiful I was. He took my number, and we started talking casually as friends. He invited me over a week later to chill and chat. The chilling turned into something else, and he asked me out about three days later while we were on the phone. We have been together for five years and married for three years with a kid. He has never treated me less or seen me as cheap—nothing less than a Queen, which I am. Before meeting him, I had my reservations about sex on the first date. I had frustrated guys and got frustrated in return when it was time for sex.
I would postpone, fight, quarrel, and even escaped rape a few times. What I want to say is that whether you have coitus on the first date or one year later, it really makes no difference. Some guys think when a lady gives in to sex on the first date, she is a hoe. Meanwhile, other guys think a lady who gives sex on the first date actually loves them. I advise you to just go with the flow and not overthink it. But also, apply wisdom so you don’t let men play with your emotions, body, and self-esteem. Shalom.
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