I have a boyfriend. I believe he loves me and all, but he doesn’t treat me as well as he used to when he was asking me out. I treat him well, gift him with expensive things, and surprise him with food. Before we started dating, he was always gifting me and sometimes got food for me only when I asked subtly, but now he doesn’t give me anything. I complained to him about how I’m the only one always doing the giving, and he said he’s struggling financially. I’m a very pretty girl, and many guys are always in my DMs who I know actually love me and can take care of me, but it’s like I’m stuck with him. If you know you can’t afford to be in a relationship, don’t disturb the girl.
No matter how broke you are, at least there will be some days where you can try to surprise me, but to be honest, the highest this guy has given me this past year is not even up to N2k. Funny, right? And even with that, I still keep on surprising him with food. Now, there’s this guy who started talking to me and is taking care of me. He doesn’t know I have a boyfriend because I didn’t tell him, but he has made it obvious that he likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me. We’ve been talking for more than three months now. We’ve had a few arguments about silly things, and we know each other really well. He tried asking me out once, but I told him I wasn’t ready. Even with that, he keeps calling me, keeps me in the loop with his work, and I know in my heart that he likes me. To be honest, I really like him too.
The problem is my boyfriend. I want to end things with him because he doesn’t even look like he’s taking his life seriously. He knows for a fact that gifting and being gifted is my love language, but it feels like he doesn’t even care if he gifts me or not. I tried breaking up with him already, but he didn’t take it too well. It’s like I’m stuck now. I don’t have the heart to break up with him, and I also don’t have the heart to cheat on him. You know the saying: “Don’t let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband.” I’m looking for a way for us to break up, but I’m confused about how. If you guys know any way to break up with someone and they won’t feel bad, please tell me. I’ll be in the comments.
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