Please fams, I need advice. I’m a 26-year-old married woman. My husband and I are living very happily, but my past is about to take this happiness away from me. In 2019, I was in my 300 level at university when I met my ex-boyfriend. We started dating, and he was in his final year. He was my first, and we were both happy together. I got pregnant in 2020, and we decided to ab0rt the baby. After that, we started using protection. He graduated and left school but visited occasionally, and we kept having s3x. Along the line, I met my husband. I told him I was a virgin, and he was so excited and promised to wait until our wedding night. Meanwhile, I kept sleeping with my ex-boyfriend. My husband placed me on a monthly allowance and was sincerely happy that he met me “untouched.” I became very sick and thought it was pregnancy again. I hurriedly informed my ex-boyfriend, and he told me to run a pregnancy test. I did a scan instead and was told to come back a week later. Fortunately, it wasn’t pregnancy, and I was relieved. I called my ex immediately, but he was unreachable. I called for months without success. I graduated from university in February 2021. Immediately after my graduation, my husband proposed to me.
He paid my bride price, and I was officially a Mrs. in April. After the ceremony, I refused to sleep with my husband, telling him I was scared. He understood and was willing to wait until I was ready. I started clove therapy and became tighter. I waited for my menstrual flow and then seduced my husband on the last day of my menstruation, and we made love. I bled so much and cried throughout. My husband felt so sorry for me. He bathed and cleaned me up and made me sleep on him. From that day, I was given princess treatment. My allowance increased, and he placed my parents and siblings on monthly allowances, also renovating my parents’ old house. I was extremely pampered and spoiled by my husband. I got pregnant, and the attention tripled. I gave birth to our son in March 2022. Life has been so good. My husband got promoted and received many contracts. Life has been really beautiful. Our son is 2 years old already, and I am currently 6 months pregnant. Last month, I received some messages from a foreign number (my ex-boyfriend). He said he would be in Nigeria by August and hoped I kept his child. I explained to him that it wasn’t pregnancy and that I tried reaching him then but couldn’t.
It was stress from school that made me sick. He said he didn’t believe me and accused me of giving his son to my husband. He keeps calling my husband a foster dad and demands I return his child or prepare for war. His mother also called, saying I should return her grandson if I want peace in my marriage. I’m being pressured. I snapped my son’s birth certificate and sent it to my ex-boyfriend. He said I faked the result. I’ve been getting calls from his family members, laying cur$es on my husband and saying I’ve committed an abomination and must be disgraced. He has moved his visit to this June. I’m scared. I’m so scared. This boy is after my life. I’ve begged and begged, offering money, a job, and a car, but he rejected all. He insists my husband must be aware of my atrocities. I told him to come and get a DNA test, and he agreed. He desperately wants to destroy my peaceful home. I don’t know what to do. I’ve been stylishly begging my husband to forgive my shortcomings. He doesn’t know what’s happening and thinks I’m just reacting to the pregnancy. He has been assuring me that all is well. What will I do? My husband would be so heartbroken. God help me. How do I successfully pass this phase of my life?
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