I Stopped Lending My Man Money

Hmmm, I don’t even know where to start from, but I will start from when I started lending my boyfriend huge money anytime he said he was broke. He was usually refunding the money back in half without considering my conditions or if I wanted to use the money for important stuff too. So, I dated this guy for 2 years, and I was always receiving money from him. But, being understanding, I was always saving the money and not spending lavishly because I believed my guy might need urgent money, and he can quickly get that funds from me. As of this year, I already lent my guy N3 million in total, without getting any funds back. So, I had little courage to ask him when he was going to send me my funds, and he said he was just owing me N400k. And he is going to send it back when he has money. I didn’t really argue with him because I know I will surely get more funds from him if I’m with him.

So recently, I asked people around about my issue, and some advised me to stop lending my guy money, which I did too. One Sunday morning, he asked me to lend him N100k that he was going to refund back. The funniest part was that I just packed a thrift of N1 million that day. So, I told him I was short of cash, and that I couldn’t dispense any at the moment. Since that day, my boyfriend has been sex-starving me. Anytime I ask him if I should come over to his place, he always says no. Recently, I noticed he hasn’t been communicating well too. So, I asked him what was the problem, and he said I made him feel low of himself. That I disrespected him. Please help me ooo, what do you think I can do? I’m in love with this guy, and I don’t want to cheat on him at all, but I’m really h0rny and have been holding my body since November.

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