My boyfriend and I started dating late last year, and I was cheating on him because I wasn’t ready to commit. He was the best man I had ever met in my 25 years with the way he treated me. But I wasn’t convinced I was the only one in his life. I was still involved with my fuck buddies and other people. I didn’t clear messages, which was a very stupid mistake, so he checked my phone, saw everything, and broke up with me. I miss him so much, and I don’t think I can move on from this. I had a guy I have known for close to 8 years now, we have been dating, but he’s not in Nigeria. I was just with him because he is good too and he helps me out from time to time. He’s now back in Nigeria, and he’s serious about the relationship. But I can’t forget my ex. I have tried to tell him several times, but it just feels sad. I don’t want to break anybody’s heart again, and I’m still in communication with my ex.
I didn’t know I was in love with him this much. Now I don’t have interest in any other person, and I want to earn his trust. He’s such a sweet boy, even after breaking up, he still tells me he loves and misses me. But I hurt him too much, and he just wants to focus on his career. He has said we can try to date again next year. I forgot to say, he’s a person who doesn’t cheat. Where do you find a man who doesn’t cheat in this generation again? I messed up so badly, and I’m willing to wait for him. I don’t care how long. He’s the one I want to get married to, and I will never cheat again, I know that. But I’m scared he might love someone else in the process too. Please, Rantandtalkz family, is it advisable to wait while I work on myself and my finances because he’s the only guy who has taken me very seriously, aside from the one abroad, but I don’t feel the same way for this one that just came back.
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