My partner and I decided to give our relationship another try, and I’m quite confused because he has changed in many ways. I used to be quite skinny and was very timid and ashamed of my body, but I ended up gaining some flesh during the time we were apart. Now he keeps commenting on my new stature and how his friends also think I’ve changed physically, and he wants me to get back to my previous stature. I really can’t afford to be that slim again because I was very insecure with that body, and I absolutely love my new body. But he keeps complaining and saying I don’t want to do things to make him happy. Now I seem to be having eating disorders as I subconsciously starve myself so that I can lose some weight, and I am very unhappy about it. Do you think he’s doing it because he loves me, or he has gotten tired of the whole relationship and is looking for a way out?
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