Honestly, I don’t know where to start, but I have been so sad and depressed, more like I don’t even know myself anymore. So basically, there’s this guy I’m dating. We’ve been together for like a few years now, and everything has been going so well till one day, I went to his phone. To my greatest surprise, this guy is a chronic cheat. I saw chats of how he slept with so many girls, how he even told them he wanna go raw with them, and even pricing them like WTF. I confronted him, he lied and begged, and I forgave him… Still went through his phone again, and saw where he went to meet up with a girl at a restaurant and I was in his house with him. He actually told me he was going to get something fixed outside, I didn’t know he was going to meet up with a girl… Even saw where he was pricing a vibrator for another girl. Like, I was so shocked. I still confronted him, and he lied, saying he was getting it for us, and I was for us. How?? Have we ever discussed about getting a vibrator?
So why now lying and all? He begged I forgave him… I still went through his phone again, and I saw where he was asking a girl to spam him and all that, and I was in the same house with this guy. I don’t even know anymore. Each time I try to break up with him, he comes begging me and all, telling me he really wants to change, that I shouldn’t leave him and all, and stupid me, I will forgive him thinking he will change… Just recently, I saw where he locked two girls’ chats in his phone. One of the girls he deleted their chat, where the other girl, I was able to read their conversation, and Omo, I was so shocked, coming from someone that I thought had changed, ’cause I took this guy as my best friend… To crown it all, he keeps changing his password, and when I ask why? He responds that it’s his phone, and he has every right to do that… I really do not know what to do. I just want to be done with this boy for real ’cause he’s manipulative and he’s gaslighting me… Please, what should I do?
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