I just want to rant. I’m tired, honestly; the whole issue is draining me. How can you be in a relationship where you can’t ask your man for money? He’s always broke. I am not broke-shaming him; he works and earns. I use my money anytime I go to his place, using my money to eat all the time. Anytime you ask him for something, he’s always lamenting, and most of the time, I don’t complain because I’m used to it already, using my money before my relationship. Yes, I work; I don’t depend on my boyfriend. We don’t go out on a date, no gifts, I use my money to make my hair. Nothing to write about, sigh. Do I love him? Yes, I do, but honestly, I can’t continue like this. The highest money he gave me in our relationship so far is within 30k-35k; our relationship should be 4 years any moment from now. I am just a girl. I don’t like to stress my man with billing here and there anytime, but I believe he should be reasonable. If I should complain to him, the next thing this man will say is, “You don’t appreciate me.” I don’t know what to do, honestly.
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