I cheated on my long-distance relationship boyfriend with a guy I met in just one week. Before you judge me, let me give the backstory. When my boyfriend and I started off, it was all good. He gave me the attention I needed, called me regularly. When we just started, I made it very clear to him that I’m the kind of girl that loves attention so much. But for the past few months now, he stopped. He doesn’t call if I don’t call, we’ve been very distant. I don’t feel loved in my relationship. He doesn’t compliment me, doesn’t tell me he loves me if I don’t tell him first. I had to stop telling him, and for the past one week now, he hasn’t said it. I’ve talked to him about it several times, and he blames it all on being busy looking for money. So last two weeks, I decided to reply to a DM on IG. We started talking, and within a few days, we were really vibing.
To be honest, I started liking this guy. He invited me over to Lagos to spend some days. I refused at first because of my boyfriend, but I eventually agreed to go. He paid for my flight to and fro and gave me a total of 520k. I swear I was really impressed, and I really liked him. But he said we can’t have anything serious, that he just needs a sneaky link he can always call whenever he is in the country because he travels a lot. I accepted because I liked him, and he made love to me so well, more than my boyfriend could ever do. I’m back from Lagos now, and I’ve even been trying to indulge my boyfriend in conversations to see if I can rekindle the spark from his end, but to no avail. I’m not happy because I’ve never cheated on my boyfriend.
I get a lot of DMs and physical toasters because I’m a very pretty girl with a nice shape, but I don’t respond because I loved my boyfriend so much. But at this point, I don’t know what to do. I just don’t feel loved, and this guy I was hoping to have a relationship with already told me he isn’t emotionally available. But with the few days I spent with him, I almost fell in love because this guy literally took care of me so well. He booked a very nice hotel for me, took me out with his friends, complimented me back to back, listened to all my gists, and made sure he made me feel satisfied. He didn’t even want me to leave. What can I do, guys? Because I’m confused right now.
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