I have been dating this guy for almost 4 years now. He has never gotten me a gift before, but I’m always gifting him. Even when I ask for money from him, he’ll complain to the extent that I’ll start apologizing for asking him. Even when I tell him I’m craving something, that he should get it for me, he’ll be like, “when you come, I’ll get it for you.” He’s always splitting bills with me. Even on my birthday, he told me to come over that he wants to spoil me (the cost of going was N6k), just for me to get there, this guy spoils me with N1800 for ice cream and meatpie. Don’t even say I should communicate because I’ve done that already, but it’s always, “God go do am for me, bae, are we suffering? We’ll have this money oooo”. Mind you, he’s doing a business that gets him a profit of more than N200k a day.
Towards Christmas last year, I lost N250k from my business money because of him. He kept on begging me to do one investment like that, and it failed. I couldn’t restock for my business, and he sent me N100k for the first time in 4 years just to compensate for my loss. So one day, I asked him that assuming I didn’t lose that money, would he have given me any money at all? This guy told me No, that the reason he sent me that money was because he felt responsible for my loss. The highest money this guy has given me was N10k for my birthday last year, and we even had a fight before he gave me that money. My dear Rantandtalkz family, what do I do? I’m tired of communicating. Does this guy love me at all, or is he stingy? Abi na me get entitlement mentality?
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