I’m really confused about what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now, and I’m 25 years old. In the first few months of our relationship, he always called and messaged me all the time. However, he noticed that I was flirting with a guy on the phone, and another guy who had been trying to get my attention came to visit me. He was really mad at me and wanted to break up because I denied everything he said. After a while, I apologized to him deeply because I knew I really hurt his trust and also lied to him. I made sure to stop any unnecessary conversations with anyone. I blocked the guy I was flirting with and the other one who came to visit me. I do not want to hurt him anymore, and honestly, ever since we’ve been dating, I’ve never cheated on him or been with anyone else. After that incident, things have been going smoothly between us. However, the thing is, since that happened during the first few months of our relationship, he stopped calling and messaging me first.
If I don’t call, he won’t either. I didn’t even see it as a big deal before, but now it’s really disturbing me. My boyfriend hardly calls or even sends me a good morning message. I’ve complained several times, but still, no changes. To the extent that I purposely didn’t message or call for almost 2 weeks, and he didn’t even call or message me to know what was wrong with me. Please, Rantandtalkz fam, what should I do to make him start calling or messaging me back? I don’t want to be the only one putting energy into our communication life because aside from this, he’s really the sweetest person in my life and has come through for me in so many ways. I also have my own job and am doing fine for myself. I know he loves me, and we’re planning to settle down soon, but this poor communication habit of his is giving me concern. Please, what should I do?
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