During Valentine’s Day, he just acted as if he didn’t know what the day was. I got him gifts, but he didn’t give me anything. I felt maybe because he was moving into his new apartment, he’d been busy and didn’t have time to prepare something. I sent him duvet and bedsheet samples and also designs of a good clock and he chose the ones he wanted. I ordered them for him and they cost me almost 50k after the Valentine’s gift of 50k+. He traveled to his new apartment location to get things sorted after Valentine’s Day on Thursday and came back on Saturday, and I asked if I could come to his place. He stopped at an eatery and waited for me. I came, we got food we’d eat that night and went to his place. Immediately after eating, he wanted sex, claiming he missed me and all that. Mehn, my food didn’t even get to digest, I was so full that I couldn’t move myself. He kept doing his thing after he was done.
We went and had our bath after which we came back to bed. Five minutes later, he came up with the second round. I told him I was tired because I went to the market and I was very stressed. He insisted and still went for the second round. After we finished, we had our bath and went to bed. The next morning, we woke up, I made breakfast, we ate, and after eating, I went to the room to relax before going to the market to buy some things. He came to the room and asked for sex again. I told him I didn’t have strength, and he got angry and stopped talking to me. He has always been like this whenever he wants sex and I don’t give it to him even after we’ve gone so many rounds. He is always very angry about it. It’s not as if I gain anything from him, he doesn’t support my business, he hardly gives me money, he just doesn’t do anything. All he wants from me is sex and for me to cook for him.
I’ve been with this guy for 4 years, but he never took me out. I just come to his place, cook for him, and he does his normal thing. I asked him to get me a wig on Christmas that I don’t want to make my hair, he said he doesn’t have money. I ignored it, but he rented a new apartment and bought new furniture even though the one he was using was still good. He has spent more than 5 million naira in his new apartment, but when I call him for money, even if it’s N5k, he claims he doesn’t have it. Like my mom will always tell us, any man who doesn’t bring money to his house has somewhere else he is spending it. I’m so tired of him that I intend to end this relationship soon.
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