I have been dating this guy for up to 2 years now, and I’ve been going through a lot of things that made me do some stuff that I’m not proud of, but I didn’t cheat on him with any guy—only made out with a girl once. This year, I was getting talks that another girl had been posting him, and someone also messaged me on IG. I told her, “If he’s still with me, then he loves me,” and then I blocked her. But I should’ve listened to her, confronted him, or probably ended things. No, I was in love and attached to him. He also cheated, and I caught him. He apologized, and I forgave him (I was still blinded by love). So recently, they sent me a screenshot of his and the girl’s picture together, and I got angry. I confronted him, and instead of acknowledging and saying yes, he has another and we should end things, he started accusing me of cheating on him with lots of guys because I have a lot of male friends.
I admit, but I don’t go about sleeping with them. He also accused me of double dating, saying he had known since and didn’t say anything. I’m like, you had all these in mind, and you didn’t confront me so we could iron it out. I would show you that it’s just you. Why did you wait for when I catch you with not just one girl that they’ve told me about, and you’re now spitting all these shits just so you could h#rt me and go be with her? Why didn’t you just break up with me and let me go and heal? He didn’t reply again, he just kept me on read. I’m just here confused about what to do or say. I think my problem is that I still love him, and I want closure. Should I still look for closure or take his silence as a breakup?
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