I’m a 24-year-old lady, doing pretty well to some extent, and an independent one. But at times, I do find it difficult. So, the issue here is my sister. She’s a single mom but a very lazy one. She has a daughter, and I love the girl so much that I could starve myself just to feed her. Someone is paying the child’s fees, yet it’s so difficult for my sis to feed that little 7-year-old girl. She’s living a loose life, even though nothing good is coming out of it. The moment you start assisting her, you’ve turned into her personal ATM, and she has this crazy entitlement attitude. I used to send money to her sometimes, anything I had, but lately, I stopped sending it because she’s just being lazy. This sister of mine is not even up to 30 yet. If you find work for her, she will misbehave and leave the job. Now, I want to house her for like 1 month because she’s almost like a broom, and for the sake of her daughter. Now, the issue is that she’s very troublesome and loud, and I’m a quiet person.
So, I’m scared that if she gets to know my house, she will start her usual trouble and make the whole street know about it. Should I take her in or leave her to sort her life out? What ideas can I give or do for her to make her useful to herself? I’m not that financially stable to open any business for her. Even if I do, I will regret it because it will likely fail. Me taking her in is just for her to recover herself because she’s very lean like she could break. Also, considering her lifestyle, I’m afraid that she has some kind of disease, and I’m not sure I’m financially ready to carry out any tests or treatment. Each time I see her daughter, I shed a tear because that girl literally grew up in my hands before her mom took her away, and she was so lively. But now, she’s like a stick and becoming wild because of the environment she’s growing in. Please, I need responses in the comment section. Advise me, please. Or should I just mind my own business and not do more than I should?