Hello Rantandtalkz fam, I’m excited! I got the best Val/Birthday gift this year. I’m a single mom of one and I’ve been through a lot of heartbreaks, especially from my baby dad. But now we’re cool and co-parenting very well. When I say co-parenting, this guy is giving me and his child anything we ask for, anytime. When we were in a relationship, he didn’t care about the child. Well, maybe I’m the mum that always pities him and leaves him to hustle and save money for our future. But the moment I saw how he spent on ladies and we broke up, I blocked him for one year and 6 months before he reached out through Telegram, and I decided to let him take responsibility for the business we’ve got together (our child). I’m not here to share my past story but my present love life (lol). So many guys will come, eat my money, and leave because I have a child.
The moment I tell them I have a child, they start acting weird and ghost me. On the 13th of this month, my love story began. A page liked my pictures on IG, and I took my time to check the page and liked some of the pictures on the page. That was how the handler reached out, and he started with a joke, and that was how we became friends the same day and chatted from 3 pm till 11:55 pm in the night. He wished me Happy Birthday and Valentine’s Day on the 14th (yes, my birthday was on the 14th). He asked for my contact, which I gave him, and we started chatting on WhatsApp. He stays some miles away from me. He asked if I was having a party, and I told him I would love to take someone out on a condition. He asked what’s the condition and who’s the person, I told him to be my date so he wouldn’t feel like I wanted to eat his money. I told him my condition is I’m paying the bills. He just smiled and said no problem.
I’m just the kind of lady who loves with the whole of my heart and is always ready to be supportive (Men also need to be pampered). I chose a venue between our areas, and we met at the venue. This man is so sweet my Rantandtalkz fam, he made my birthday/Valentine’s the best I’ve experienced in years. I felt so comfortable with him that I don’t know how we kissed. After the dinner and the band sang me happy birthday, he paid the bills. I was angry, but he said he’s trained to take care of his woman. He gave me a birthday gift as well. We parted ways and chatted all through the night. My friends had been dragging me to tell him about my child, but I said no, I just wanted to enjoy this relationship. My nephew celebrated his birthday recently, and I posted him with “sonshine” caption, he asked if he was my son, and I said yes. He asked why I didn’t tell him, and I told him I was scared he would ghost me too.
He smiled and said having a child is not a crime. I told him the one I posted was my cousin, and mine is older. He asked for my child’s picture, and I sent it to him. I asked when he would dump/ghost me, and he said he was not here to dump me, and that having a child is not a crime but a blessing. We’re still cool, and he has not changed like the guys in my past. In fact, we’re planning a trip to some African countries this weekend. I’m so excited, and I’m in love. Rantandtalkz fam, whatever happens, good or bad, I promise not to break nor stop falling in love. Wish me luck in this relationship, guys, because this man brings lots of happiness into my heart and life, and he’s so supportive. I will update you on our Baecation.
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