I already have a boyfriend, and last October I met this man while on my way to submit project work. I was riding when this man stopped me. I thought something was wrong with my tire, so I stopped, only for this man to request my number. I hesitated for some time, and because I was running late, I quickly gave him the number and rode off. So I honestly forgot about him, and at night he called and introduced himself, and I remembered him. We got talking, and I was honest with him that I have a boyfriend. He said my boyfriend is such a lucky guy to have a girl like me. We talked more into the night, and after the call, I called my guy and told him about the man I met and what we talked about (I tell my boyfriend everything).
After the call, I didn’t talk with this man for two days, and to be honest, I couldn’t stop thinking about him. It was an instant connection. I was really hoping and praying that this man would call me, and two days later, he did. I was so excited, I had butterflies in my stomach. Since then till now, I have been talking to him. Now I am madly in love with him, but I can’t let him know I love him because I love my boyfriend, and a lot of people have said we are meant to be together. Even I have prayed countless times to God to prove to me that my boyfriend is going to be my husband, and I have seen all the right signs. Right now, I don’t understand why I am in love with this new guy.
I am so confused. I have prayed to God to remove this man from my thoughts, mind, and soul, and he should help me stop thinking about him, but the feelings only get stronger and stronger. Currently, I am fighting with him, and I should be glad, and I should use this opportunity to let him go, but I am hurt and heartbroken. I can’t think straight. It is affecting my mental health. I can’t help but think about this man. I do not know what to do. By the way, I’m 26, from Ghana. Please, if you don’t have anything nice to say, keep your comment to yourself. I am very sensitive to words. Thank you ❤️.
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