I Have been doing friends-with-benefits with this boy since 2021 because he told me he can’t handle a relationship. We should just be doing FWB. So whenever we have sex, he’ll send me money. He has only taken me out to flex twice, the remaining ones, sex, sex, sex. In the year 2023, he posted a girl, and I went to the girl’s TikTok to search, and I realized they were dating. I felt so bad because he told me he couldn’t handle a relationship then, yet he jumped to date someone else. He even got hair of N350k for her because when I checked her TikTok, she posted thank you to my man that got this hair. I also saw the receipt.
This guy has never credited me N50k before, apart from the time I lied to him that I was pregnant, he gave me N100k to ab*rt, and he gave her N500k on her birthday. So, they later broke up, he told me the girl made him broke, and he wants us to continue our FWB. The last time we had s3x was last year, in September. So now, this year 2024, I feel I’m not a baby anymore. I really want to end this stup•d FWB. I don’t want to have anything with anybody concerning FWB. Plus, he always promises and fails; he’ll promise me money and won’t send it. Guys, I need help and advice. I want to stop this FWB this year.
We haven’t seen this year, I’ve been giving him excuses. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please can anyone help me compose a message I can send to him so I can end it? This guy has never given me N200k, but he bought Ashluxe of N400k for his ex-girlfriend. Or should I just focus on my business? I’m confused. Ahbi should I look for a way to lock him, so I can show him my own shege and collect all his money? I feel so ashamed of myself, I have no value to him again.
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from what you wrote its clear your jealous and still have feelings for him. FWB means you can have a relationship outside it because youguys are just “friends”. Nevertheless don’t lock him because that’s wickedness, just tell him your ending it and move on with your life. Better yourself and turn to our Lord and saviour Jesus christ 🙏🏾