Last year, I met this guy online. We were cool and always talking. At that moment, nothing was attached. After two months of knowing each other, he asked me out that very day. Since I was single and had known him for a few months, I just wanted to give love another try. So, we started dating. After two months of being friends and one month of dating, we fixed a date to see each other. I went to his side from Ibadan to Lagos. He was caring and all of that, and I would say I enjoyed our first meeting. So, I left back to Ibadan, and this guy never gave me any token for my transport fare. I felt it was normal since I was his girlfriend. I didn’t even think about that anymore. We were cool for five months of dating, and my so-called boyfriend didn’t even know the kind of bank I was using.
Since I was working, I didn’t ask him for stuff. Always went to his place, and he never asked me once how I got money for transport, and he never gave me any from Ibadan to Lagos. On this fateful day, I saw a gown I’d love to get, and as a girlfriend, I showed my boyfriend. The comment he made was, ‘It’s going to look good on you if you get it.’ I was like, ‘If I get it?’ So, to avoid issues over the phone, I let it slide. Not until when I went to his place, and I told him he should give me some money to make my hair. He said he doesn’t have money, acting broke. In my presence, his friend showed him a 35,000 Naira slide and he bought it. At that moment, I felt different. Is he taking me for granted or is he trying to test how patient I might be? I left his place the following day.
So, I told him, ‘Babe, I saw a particular perfume you’re going to like.’ This guy sent money for it immediately. I was like, ‘Wow, so you really do care about yourself and can’t even give me common money for transport whenever I come to your place.’ Then, the main thing that got me pissed off was when I went to his place last year. We were inside, and I told him I wanted to get my body cream. Before he said it out, I talked before him, ‘You’re broke, Abi?’ Of course, that was what he was about to say. I was like, ‘You’re always complaining you’re broke. Can’t you pay any of my bills as your girlfriend?’ He then said he has sisters, a mom, and his dogs, and that he’s sorting their bills. I made a statement to him, ‘Then go and fuck your sister or dog.’
We both got into an argument and the next day, I left his place. So, since last year, we’ve been neutral because we both apologized to each other after the argument. This guy has been balling out back to back. The main thing is I call this person my boyfriend, and it’s close to 11 months of dating. Here I am, who can’t even ask for anything urgent from my boyfriend or tell him to support my business. I really do love him because he’s caring and all. Guys, this person is six years older than me. It’s been weeks now, and we’re just neutral, just good morning texts. Should I just let him be by breaking up, or should I still stay with him, probably if he has other plans for me? I’m confused guys.
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