I started dating this guy in January 2022, and he told me he had plans to relocate (japa) around April. This guy ghosted me until July when I saw his status that he had already relocated, and he came back apologizing. I accepted his apology, but in 2023, there was no birthday gift or wish from him. He claimed to have lost a friend when he eventually wished me late at night. When Valentine’s Day approached, he ghosted me again. After losing my job, he promised to provide a certain monthly amount until I found another job, but he didn’t fulfill that promise.
He gets upset whenever I hang out with my friends, even though it’s not his money. On my birthday and Valentine’s Day this year, he ghosted me once again. Now he’s discussing marriage with my mom for a December wedding. Note: My phone was faulty at one point, and I messaged him using my mom’s phone. My mom insists I marry him, but I’m not financially stable. I’m concerned about potential hardships in marriage. I need your advice, please.
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