I have a boyfriend of 8 months; it was all rosy in the beginning (not the financial aspect because most of you get triggered by financial talks by a lady). I do not ask him for money, even when I tell him I want to go get something, he’ll be like stay safe. If I ask him for it, he’s the type to provide, but I do not know how to ask a guy to pay for my stuff unless he offers to… so I’ve never asked him for anything. He lost some money and was kind of losing it, I understood and tried to make him feel better. He wasn’t expressive either. He started ghosting. I tried to believe and understand it was because of the money issues, then after a week, it was the same. We won’t talk for hours. I complained bitterly and decided to end it (though I know I was overreacting and overthinking it). I apologized and promised to be more understanding. He claimed he was still not okay, but he has been posting a few things on his snap and even a post on his Instagram.
He recently got a new wristwatch and sent it to me to ask if it’s cute. I was like wow, it looks good. The vibe is no longer there. I don’t think he’s still sad. He still does his normal daily routine without texting me. I text first, I double text, I call and get my call returned the next day or a text saying he was tired, he slept off. I’m not feeling this anymore. I talk to only him, he no longer texts me. Before, if he did not get my text for a long time, he would text and double text and even call, but now he doesn’t care. He still drives around with his friends, he doesn’t tell me much about his day anymore. I have to ask. For the past 27 hours now, no text from him. Can I break up? Won’t it look like I’m not understanding, or is he tired? I’ve tried breaking up thrice, he’s making me feel like the bad person. Then I take my words back. He said he’s still adjusting, I don’t understand anymore.
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