See, as a woman, being friends with a man is absolute nonsense and a waste of time. Men befriend women on a transactional scheme. I know many won’t agree, but it’s just the truth. Whenever I see women post about how they have male friends/male besties and they’re very sure they are platonic towards them, I just laugh. Men can’t be friends with women they don’t find attractive. After attractiveness, what’s next? They start looking for ways to shoot their shot. I’m a woman, so I know what I’m saying. 95% of your male friends are patiently waiting for their turn. Have you noticed when your friend asks you out and you say no, they start drifting apart?
Because they know their mission can’t be accomplished, and there’s no point loitering around. I understand being friends with women isn’t safe because fake friends are too much, but I won’t say male friends are safe too, honestly. It can be safer if they have girlfriends already, but what’s the point of being friends with a man in a relationship? The best friend to have is yourself, honestly. Male friends don’t have clean minds towards you. If they are chanced, they’ll sleep with you without looking back. Don’t hold the opinion of “I trust him.” Please let’s all be on guard.
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