I have been dating my boyfriend since 2020 and I have nothing good to say about our relationship. We meet up just when he wants sex, I don’t really like sex but I do it just because I love him. He acts stingy to me and always complains he’s broke to the extent that I don’t even ask him for anything again because he’ll surely say he doesn’t have but when he has money, he won’t call me and he will always be at the club. He cheats too. I love him and he acted like he loved me too when he was broke. By the way, it’s not like I’m not loved at home, my dad doesn’t joke with his kids so my dad is always there for me whenever I’m in need. I have tried breaking up wit him multiple times but we ended up getting back together.
Please is this love or stupidity? I know there are sometimes when you love someone but will still have to leave the person, it’s not working for me though. Please, is there a way I can stop loving him? I can’t even get angry at him for long and it’s not like I’m enjoying the relationship, it’s so boring! We don’t even exchange gifts or go out together, not to even talk of taking pictures together. We’ve never even celebrated our anniversary, not even an ordinary happy anniversary text message. We’ve never exchanged birthday gifts too because I don’t want to be doing everything and still be like a fool. I hate to be embarrassed, it doesn’t even feel like I’m in a relationship. I need your advice, please.