Should I continue with the marriage or get an abortion and divorce? I am an international student and things got very hard for me financially. At one point, I didn’t even have accommodation. I met a guy in church and we became close. I explained my situation and he offered me a room in his house and a fake marriage so I could get my stay. The agreement was that I would also pay him. But eventually, he started acting strange. He would get angry for no good reason, and snap at me. I couldn’t leave due to lack of funds. Most of my money is going towards tuition and I couldn’t pay him regularly. I am also owing him money because he helped me pay for one year of school and paid most of the bills.
Eventually, he started asking me for sex and I agreed and got on birth control. The issue is that this man has destroyed me for another man He is acting like it is real marriage now. Before he would wear a condom, then he said he didn’t want to wear it again because the condom always tears. Thank God for birth control then. His gbola is huge and he doesn’t even pity me. Like I will be begging him to put half inside. He will put the full thing and make sure to cum inside me. If I try to refuse, he will threaten me to withdraw the application. Like I’m acting like his wife now. Cooking, cleaning, sex, etc Even his family and friends think it is real.
I can’t even focus on school properly and reduced my credit hours because I am always tired from him and my part-time job. Now I just found out that I am pregnant. How can I be married to a foreigner? I may not be able to finish school if I stay married to him because he mentioned once that he was looking for a housewife and many children. But if I leave, it’s back to square one. He provides well but he is controlling about how a man should be and the roles of a woman. Like he is one of those evangelical oyinbos. I’m just tired. He is not like the regular oyinbo people. He is not easy to handle, almost like a Naija man in his mentality.
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