I am stuck between decisions. I’ve been in my relationship for almost 3 years, and I love my man so very much. I think he’s my soulmate. However, for almost 2 years now, things haven’t been going too well for him, but I stuck around because I know what I feel for him will fill all the gaps. He still does what he can for me, and I appreciate it. The issue now is, there’s a guy I met almost 2 years ago. We do business together, and I like to make sure it stays that way. He’s very successful (legitimately) and God-fearing. I’ve always known he liked me, but I try to ignore it. I told him I have a man that I’m very much in love with, and he’s respected that. This guy is very driven. He’s taught me a lot about attracting success and getting to the life I want. I’ve been doing much better financially because of my affiliation with him. Now, he’s been saying that he wants to be with me, and I tick all the boxes for him when it comes to a good woman, and that he’s been waiting patiently for my relationship to end (lmao).
He’s been very vocal about his feelings lately and says he wants to settle down with me. He’s in his mid-thirties, and I’m 21. My man is in his late twenties, and he’s trying and doing what he can. He used to commit fraud (I didn’t know about it when we started dating, and he stopped because I told him to, and that’s the reason he doesn’t really have money anymore). I love my man, and I want to stick beside him, but I also don’t want to regret it. My friend (a guy) advised me to think about the other guy’s proposal too and to pray, but the thought of leaving my baby for another man makes me sick to my stomach, and I believe he can still become successful in the future. Am I being foolish? Because I’ve heard many bad stories about staying down and trying to build with a man. I love him, but it feels like I have to choose between love and a comfortable future. Please help me.
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