I met my girlfriend at the end of 2022. I spent on her, spoiled her, and showed little caring and support, but I didn’t show her full love. I messed up a lot, took other girls on dates, texted them, and bought food and clothes for them. She caught me with 5-7 girls, but she forgave me and told me to promise to change, and I did. After 4/5 months, I was financially drained, which made me tell my girlfriend, “I am tired of meeting her needs and wants, the responsibility was too much because she stays with me.”
So, I told her to leave and find work. She got a job and met a guy there, a young soldier. They made a video together that I saw on her Snapchat, where my girlfriend put her head on his chest and posed for the camera. I found out and wanted to break up with her, but she begged, and I forgave her, telling her to block every single person who had her contact. I forgave her, thinking I had done worse before. Later, I found out she was still talking to the soldier guy and did video calls with him, which broke my heart.
I forgave her but couldn’t forget. Later, she confessed that it was because she showed me all the love, and I didn’t reciprocate. She said she likes seeing soldiers dressing, in their camo, and mentioned that I stopped taking care of her responsibilities. I questioned whether she didn’t have parents and family, and if guys were her sources of income. This made me think maybe she was with me just for survival. Later, she begged me to give her a little time, saying she just wanted to be collecting money from the guy.
I blocked the guy myself on all her social media, but I feel like she’s still making calls with him even after I blocked him. She was a good girl, but now I don’t trust her anymore because she makes sure to clear her chat and act innocent. I don’t know what to do. Thank you if you read from the start to the end. Y’all should give me your opinion on what I should do.