I want to share my story about my last relationship because I’ve not gotten over it. My last relationship was so terrible—she manipulated me and broke my heart to the extent that I cried. I was born and raised in a Christian background, so I used to pray very well. I live in a room and parlor, well-furnished. I don’t drink too much, I don’t smoke, and I don’t womanize. So, I thought with all this, I would meet my soulmate, but nah, shege happened. I swear to God who created me. She didn’t care about the things I did for her. She didn’t even want to know how hard it was for me to get the money that I always gave her. I always told my girl everything about my life and planned my life with her because I really loved her so much. There was a time when I was broke, I called one of my guys to help me look for a job, and he did. I went to my guy’s place and spent more than 4 months there so that I could raise money to start up a business. My girl didn’t call me or check on me, she only called me when she needed help. I was so foolish to think I was in a relationship with the right person.
I gave her everything, I hustled hard so that I could take care of her, but she didn’t care about me. I even told her that both of us should travel to Canada to start a new life, but this girl didn’t care about it. I bought gifts several times, maybe she would change, but she didn’t. I sat her down and talked to her about how she treated me. I begged several times; if I’ve wronged her, she should forgive me. She said I didn’t do anything. There was a time that I cried in front of this girl about how she treated me. That day, I knew I was a fool, she told me that even she pitied me because no girl could treat any of her brothers the way she treated me. I asked, “What did I do?” She said I didn’t do anything. I tried to move on, but I loved her too much. I don’t even know if it’s charm or juju. I swear, I don see shege for relationship oo. Toasting is difficult for me because I still think about how I was treated in my last relationship. I just dey look all the girls walk away in front of my shop like weyrey people. Honestly, I don’t know how to develop feelings for any girl again due to what I’ve been through.
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