I have been in a 3-year relationship with my boyfriend. We’ve been committed, loyal, and all that. He recently changed his phone from 12pmax to 14pmax because the 12 malfunctioned. Mine is XR, and it’s also due for a change. We were supposed to change our phones together. His iPhone just stopped working suddenly, so he had no choice but to change his first. That’s fine, but it came to my knowledge that he was planning on changing mine to an iPhone 11 because he likes surprises and didn’t want to tell me.
When I heard it, I didn’t feel happy about it. I felt somehow because I didn’t like the iPhone 11, I felt like I did have a choice. He should ask me what I like, or does he feel I don’t deserve a bigger phone? While I was using my XR, he changed his phone twice for some reason. Finally, now that he wants to change mine, it’s an 11. Omo, I do feel bad because most men do have this kind of mindset. I’m not feeling entitled to his money, but my choice does mean something too, that’s if he does want to make me happy. Ps: He takes care of me well, and we’re pretty good.
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