I am married with 2 boys (twins). Recently, my husband and I found out our babies are not his but that of my ex. My ex has been disturbing me, saying he wants a DNA test because people said my boys look so much like him. He invited me once after our departure, and how my boys turned out to be his is what I can’t figure out to date. He’s married with 2 kids as well. But, after the DNA test, he insisted I marry him, saying he wouldn’t want me to have children with different men. This woman that bore him children is the lady my ex cheated on me with that caused our separation. His parents and families are not in support of him coming for DNA. I only chose to accept because I wanted to be at peace, and so did my husband. Now, the problem here is after all that happened, my husband still wants me, and he still wants our children, as he is the one who did the naming ceremony, and we are equally legally married!
But my ex, whose DNA shows he’s the father of my children, insists I must not take his twins back to my husband’s roof. That I should drop them off with my parents or come back to him as his wife – someone who already has a wife and children. Some people say he has chased his wife and children out because of me. I don’t know what he wants or sees in me (we dated for close to 7 years) before we broke up. This ex of mine is someone I can kill with my bare hands if I have the opportunity. He had hurt me too much to forgive him. He cheated on me so much that I was treating infections as if I was going to EKE MARKET. I’m back to my village as we speak because the police said I should not rush to conclusions. I should relax to choose right if I want to go back to my ex, who is the father of my children, or my husband, under whose roof I bore those children.
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