I broke up with my “bf.” We met 9 months ago, and it was a wonderful relationship. When we met, he told me he was single. Along the line, I realised there was a girl in the picture. He said they didn’t match, blah blah, and that he had broken up with her. The girl’s name kept coming up in conversations, how she was boring, she was this, she was that. At a point, I warned him not to mention her name. Previously, I read their chats when the girl kept begging him and asking why he doesn’t pick her calls and why he is always on calls with another girl. So I assumed he had broken up, and she was holding on. Only for me to go through his phone and see he was asking the girl to come to his house for the weekend. When I confronted him, he said she had house issues, and he offered her his house for 2 days because she was alone, and he couldn’t turn her away. He offered oo. Lol. He must think I’m 15. This is someone I’ve caught cheating once. I just broke up with him, and I won’t lie, it’s a bit harder this time around. Don’t know if it’s age. I mean, at 33, most of my female friends are married,
abroad, so we don’t have as much fun together anymore. I can’t do solo outings; it doesn’t work for me. He was literally my whole life, and I won’t lie, the relationship was beautiful. We were on calls almost 22 hours a day. Our times together were beautiful. He is claiming he has broken up with her. I doubt it. I mean, she was there before me, so I’ve told him to focus on her. It’s very hard. I’ve cried a lot. I’m also a bit lonely. How do I cope? What do I do to keep busy? I have enough time on my hands. My business has been slow this month, so I have a lot of time on my hands. I’m just asking for advice on how to get busy and maybe forget him. I know I will soon. And no, I’m not jumping into another relationship. I mean, I don’t even give out my number anymore. I’m tired of all those aimless conversations with men I know won’t lead anywhere. I want to be celibate and alone for a while, maybe till next year. Just asking for suggestions to keep me busy and focus on myself, and maybe something that can bring extra income. Don’t even know what to say.
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