I met this guy at my place of work. I am a health practitioner. The first time I saw him, I had no interest in him, but he liked me. He came with a complaint, so my boss told him to go and get a wife. He then told my boss to find him someone, and my boss jokingly pointed at me. They both laughed it off like he wasn’t interested, not until the next day when he came and tried to talk to me, but I didn’t give him any attention, so he left. I was trying to document the injection I gave him when I discovered that he didn’t pick up his medicines. We pharmacists tried calling him so many times, but the calls weren’t going through, so I told her I would keep trying. Then, he picked up. After I told him that he didn’t pick up his medicine and all, he asked who was speaking. I mentioned my name, and he then asked, “Please, can I get your number?” I gave it to him, and that was when we started talking. Later on, he asked me out, and I became his girlfriend. I thought the relationship was going to be all sweet and loving, not until I realised there were issues with his communication.
He doesn’t like texting, and even our calls are not frequent. We have never video-called before, but when we see each other physically, he is sweet and good. He comes around to my side, we sit and talk in his car and all, but when he goes back, the communication issues begin. He is not giving me enough reasons to like him, and he is one of those guys who are very self-aware of their looks, outfits, and the fact that they have a good job. I am also very pretty myself, and I mean really pretty; people tell me this. I have been celibate and haven’t been in a relationship for over a year, only to settle for what I don’t even know how to describe. I have spoken to him about it. He said he would change, but there have been no signs of change. He is really my kind of guy, but I am not being loved the way I want to be loved. Now, I am also giving back the same energy by not texting until he does and replying hours after seeing his text because he feels I am young and naive, as he is ten years older than I am. I don’t really know what to do.
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