I dated this guy sometime last year. We started talking here on this app and eventually decided to meet up. Everything was perfect; we had good vibes and all. The only thing was that he went out a lot, and I stayed with my mum, so going out like that and staying out late was close to impossible. One day in November, we went out on a Thursday. Everything was good, and we even talked afterwards. Then, from Monday the following week, I noticed he had stopped replying to my texts. At first, I thought he was just busy and all, but that was how I kept sending message after message without getting any reply, and my calls weren’t answered either. I was scared that I had done something wrong the last time we were together, and I honestly just needed clarity to move on. Fast-forward to December 28, he messaged me and asked to meet up. I went because I needed to know what happened. He apologised, told me he was dealing with some things, and said it was never going to happen again.
I forgave him and even warned him. I was honestly really happy because I loved him so much and couldn’t imagine being without him anymore. He still ghosted me again. Immediately after I left, the only message he sent was to know if I got home safely. After that, it was just one reply every two days. I tried enduring it until after New Year, and I finally blocked him and deleted his number. I later unblocked him again because I couldn’t do it. In summary, I don’t know how to get over being ghosted.
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