I’m 25 years old. I have someone I’m currently dating, and since we met, he has been a good guy. But to me, he’s not that attractive. He is not handsome, I don’t like his lips, and he’s not what I’ve been expecting. Based on the fact that the last time I was in a relationship was in 2021, and I’ve been feeling very, very lonely, I thought, okay, let me try this out. But this thing has not been working out the way I want. Sometimes, when we talk, I just look at him, then I notice his teeth, and I just feel off. Then I ask myself, is this really the person I want to date? I feel like I’m not s€xually attracted to him. I don’t think I’m very, very attracted to this guy because sometimes I just feel like I’m forcing it. Sometimes I even have the urge to do things with someone else. But then I’m like, okay, this person is a good guy. If I lose him, will I see someone better?
I’ve been single for so long, and with the fact that people around me say that maybe all those people they call fine boys are bad, and that I can just go with this person, I don’t know. I’m confused. Mind you, it’s not like this person is giving me money or anything. No, we are both struggling. It’s not like he has never given me money since we started dating or anything. But sometimes, when I feel like breaking up, I just think, ah, this thing will pain this person. I keep asking myself what I should do. I don’t know. I’m confused. I don’t know if I should maybe try things out or just break up with him. For about two days now, I’ve not been talking to him properly. He calls, and I just tell him I’m busy and end the call. I’ve also been avoiding meeting him. We haven’t been talking properly for about two days now.
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