I’m Pained About What My Friend Did to Me

There’s this friend of mine (we’re no longer friends because of what he did). He’s married. We’ve known each other for at least three years. He introduced me to his wife when we were friends. He also introduced me to his friend who is based in the UK. His friend and I dated for some time, but our relationship didn’t work out. I’m like a family friend to his family. I go to his house, and he comes to my house, but we stay in his car and talk when he comes around because my family doesn’t know him. To cut a long story short, he invited me to his shortlet apartment, which was not in operation yet. Mind you, I’ve been there before with him, and we just talked. So, on this particular day, he told me to come and see him there. I went, and we were together talking and catching up. Then, after some time, he started behaving funny and asked me to sleep over. I used an excuse to decline, and when I was about to leave, I noticed the door was locked.

I told him, and he brought the keys, but instead of opening the door, he started touching me, saying I was s€xy and all that. Next thing, he carried me and dropped me on the couch (I’m slim and not heavy). He started trying to have his way with me, and I kept telling him to stop, but he didn’t listen. This man fingered the hell out of me while I was struggling with him, and he wanted to use his D, but I said I was on treatment (I just said it, thinking he would stop), so it made him not penetrate me with his d!ck. He then tried to give me head, but I refused. He said I should give him a blow or hand job so he would cum. I refused, and while I was trying to get up to leave, he started using his D to hit my p*ssy until he came. It was so painful, and I sustained injuries. He got off me when he was satisfied, cleaned his stup!d semen from my skin, and I arranged my clothes to leave with so much pain in my heart. I shouted at him, told him I was going to tell his wife, and blocked him.

He started begging until I left. We got into a heated argument later over the phone, and I blocked him. He wasn’t really remorseful. He was trying to gaslight me with, “We have come a long way.” I later didn’t tell his wife and tried to move on. Whenever I think of it, it annoys me so much, and I feel like letting his wife and my UK ex know. I want to inform them now, even though it’s been a few months. But my former friend was good to me when we were friends, so it’s giving me double thoughts. I don’t know if I should let them know or just let it go. What do you guys think? I’ll be reading only women’s opinions because I know men would want to support their gender.

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