Hello Rantandtalkz family, I recently got engaged to my girlfriend, now fiancée. We’ve been together for almost two years, and I love her deeply. She loves me too. I have never cheated on her, and she has never cheated on me. She is beautiful, romantic, prayerful, supportive, hardworking, and so many other good things. However, there is one issue that bothers me a lot. I’m a very expressive lover. I give my all in both the good and bad moments, and I always try to remain kind and loving. But there is something she does that I’ve spoken to her about several times, and she has refused to change. Whenever we have a conflict or misunderstanding, she can go days, even up to a week, without picking my calls or responding to my messages. Even if I send a hundred texts, she won’t reply until she feels like it. During that period, she will still update her stories, go out, and post that she went out without telling me anything. I’m usually the one who apologises, which I don’t mind because I love her, but calling and texting someone who refuses to answer even once is painful.
Our wedding is set for September, but I’m scared. I don’t want a marriage where she won’t speak to me for days or weeks whenever we disagree. I’m even considering reporting her to her mum because she has refused to change this stubborn, silent-treatment behaviour. I bought her a car for the engagement because she truly makes me happy, except during conflicts when she shuts me out completely and doesn’t check on me for days or weeks. Kindly help an expressive lover man on how to go about situations like this. I’ll be reading your comments.
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