Guys! I’ve just been ghosted! This has to be one of the worst types of heartbreak ever, and it’s not number two. I came out of a 4-year relationship in 2024, and I stayed away from men for a whole year. Tell me why I’m crying this year, and Snapchat was reminding me that I was in the same situation this time last year. Recap: This new guy came into my life in November 2025, and he was like an answered prayer. He said all the right things, asked the right questions, and did the right things. I was genuinely happy. He got me flowers, and we went on so many dates. He shared his insecurities with me and made me feel good about mine. His birthday came around, and I dipped into my savings and got him birthday gifts because, why not? He deserved it. We were planning memories as we were making some. We talked all the time. I don’t want to go into specifics. He was an angel, and then the changes started: late replies and excuses. The old me would have been nonchalant and just checked out emotionally, but I communicated, asked questions, double-texted, me wey get pride normally.
Long story short, he ghosted me for a week after all the inconsistencies and came back to give more excuses. I just told him, “I’m sorry about everything that happened to you, but I’d have appreciated it if you kept me in the loop. The last time we talked about this, I told you I wanted someone who shared and not someone who disappeared when times get tough. I’m sorry, but this character doesn’t align with what I want and the kind of love I want.” I was so pained, but I had to choose peace because I have seen signs and I don’t want to see wonders. Guys, I can’t stop crying. I miss him every day, but we move. I didn’t get my closure. I don’t know what went wrong, but I know something went wrong, and I can’t take breadcrumbs. He introduced me to a vibe he couldn’t keep up with. Everything lasted less than a month. I was reckless, let my guard down, and was reminded why I stayed away from that gender in the first place.
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