Before you can truly love someone else, you have to love yourself first. When you love yourself, you’ll be able to step back and recognise when you’re acting foolish in a relationship. I’m saying this from experience. Over the years, I’ve had different girls get attached to me even when I wasn’t giving them anything to hold on to. Some of them call, text, and try to reach out, but I ignore the calls and don’t reply to the messages because I just want them to move on. I find it difficult to say no directly, so I usually act nonchalant instead, even though I’m actually a caring person. Still, they keep trying, and to me, that shows a lack of self love. You can’t keep holding on to someone who clearly isn’t showing interest and expect that one day he’ll suddenly change overnight. I’m just sharing this to remind everyone that we need to love and respect ourselves first because people will only treat you the way you treat yourself.
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