I am 19 and my boyfriend is 24. I am a very beautiful girl with a nice body, and my boyfriend is very cute. He has a car and he is a forex trader, and he also has other side jobs. He has been chasing me since July last year. I met him on Instagram, but we were just off and on. We finally met around October, and the first day I slept over at his place, but we did not have sex. I told him I was on my period because I did not want anything to happen. I am a virgin and I am not ready for sex yet, but we kissed and touched. We were still in contact after our first meeting. My birthday passed, but he did not get me any gifts. I did not take it seriously because we were not dating. The second time we were supposed to meet, he said I would be the one to sponsor us. We went on an ice cream date and I paid for it, then I slept over at his place. I told him I was not ready for sex, that we would do it next time when we meet. After that, we did not meet until three weeks later because I kept persuading him for us to meet, and he said he was expecting money and when he gets it, we will meet.
I told him before we have sex, he has to ask me out first because he keeps acting as if we are in a relationship. This guy has never taken me out on a proper date, never given me gifts or sent me money, but he always flaunts his wealth. I slept over at his place again last week, but I was on my period, so we did not have sex. That was when he asked me out. I asked him why he never gifts me or takes me out, and he said he does not have money, that when he has, he will do more for me. He keeps talking about how he will take my virginity when next we meet. This guy only sends me transport fare when I ask, and it does not exceed N5k. I feel he does not love me. I do not want someone that does not love me to take my virginity. I really want to have sex, but not with the wrong person. What pained me the most was when I asked him to get me food when I was leaving his place, he said he does not have money, but he was showing me his transaction history and I saw millions there. I really love him, but I do not want to be used. I feel like after we have sex, he will just leave me. My ex used to treat me much better, sending me transport, gifts, and care without asking. Good guys are rare. My ex is even younger than my current boyfriend but treated me better. I really miss my ex. There are guys out there that want me, but I still choose this one. Even the smallest gift he has not given me. Please, no insults, advise me like your junior sister.
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