I grew up in a family where my voice was never heard, and my parents didn’t show love. My mum never complimented me, almost like she was in a competition to look better than her kids. She always body-shamed me because of my small stature, and I grew up thinking something was wrong with me. I’m an adult woman now, and this trauma hasn’t left me. I don’t ever feel good enough for anyone, and I keep comparing myself to every woman I meet. Because of this, I h8te my mum, and I feel deep resentment towards her. I have never really been in a relationship where I’m happy because I have been forced to be with men I don’t like. I don’t feel anyone would love me or want a woman without boobs or ass, so I just go with the flow and accept wrong treatment because I feel grateful they chose me. I just need advice from anyone who has gone through this. How were you able to build your confidence and attract the kind of men you want? I’m saying this because I’m at the age to get married, and I really want to end up with someone I like, not out of obligation or desperation. I want to be happy and in love with someone I find attractive and someone who also finds me attractive, but I feel like my low self-esteem will ruin things for me.
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