I am 25 years old and currently serving. I met this guy in camp and just wanted to flirt with him. I hadn’t been laid in a long time, so I felt after camp I would just use him for a one-night stand, nothing serious. After camp, we lodged, had sex, and traveled back together. Relocation worked to almost the same place, and I started catching feelings. He likes me too. Then I met another guy via Uber. We got talking, and he is doing okay. We hung out a couple of times, and he likes me too. We’ve had sex once, and he seems into me. I want someone intentional and someone who has his life together.
I see that in the Uber guy. The other guy isn’t financially stable, and I don’t want to suffer with any guy right now. I’m not very financially stable, but I’m okay, and my family is well to do. I haven’t told them details because I don’t want a man with me for financial benefits. I think I like my Uber guy more. He’s more mature and emotionally and mentally stable. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to lose home and away, and I don’t want to get deeply involved and then have to choose.
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