I think I don’t know what to do. I am someone who fancies education. I didn’t further more than secondary school level due to certain situations. I am 27 this year, I have my work, and I think it’s high time I get married. I have always wanted my man to be educated and someone who is religious. I have someone I love wholeheartedly but he’s still in university and he said I should get married because he doesn’t want to delay me. He said he’s not getting married immediately after school and I’m a lady whose time can’t be delayed. Aside from the school boy, my neighbour also wooed me, and I insisted no, but I once thought about what it would be like if I were to marry him because he has all that I want in a man. He’s educated, he’s a believer, a civil servant, and he has his work, but he said he can’t assure me that he won’t have more than one wife, so I locked up.
The person I’m dating now cannot read or write; he’s an illiterate in short (not insulting him), and he doesn’t know anything about being dedicated to religion which I don’t like, and it’s bothering me. But he cares a lot for me, he knows what responsibility means, he’s considerate, he never gets jealous or angry with me, but deep down it feels like I’m only pretending. Whenever I go there and we have s€x I don’t feel it, I don’t satisfy him, and he tells me that I didn’t make him enjoy it. It feels like my heart is somewhere else and I’m forcing myself to love him, and some of his relatives already know me. I hope this is not how things will continue. Will I be able to love him later? I have prayed about it and they said we are compatible and he keeps doing what everyone would ever pray for in a relationship. What should I do? Please no insult.
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