My ex and I got back after a little break up which 80% of the fault was from my end. After months of being with another lady he came back saying he couldn’t forget what we’ve shared in the past. Along the line we got dating back and I got to know he still speaks to his ex. I asked about it, he said he has broken up with her, that they only still communicate because she never offended him. Mind you the same girl was part of the reasons we broke up in the first place. I insisted he cut her off or I let go of the relationship. After few months of dating I got pregnant. We were both happy about it, got to seek doctor’s advice about the genotype stuff because he is AC while I am AS. We were advised to chill till after 12 weeks to know if it’s safe, by then we can see the baby’s genotype. So one day we were home together, I asked to use his phone for videos. He logged out an old snap and I noticed. I logged in the old snap back and saw that he had spoken with the girl that same day, even saw the girl showing him her ovulation settings.
I got so mad and became violent (regrets), hit him with everything I could lay my hands on at the moment. Afterwards I walked away. While I was angry I suggested we abort the baby and called the nurse immediately, split the bills, told him his share and went off. After getting home I sent several messages of how sorry I am and of such situation never happening again. He said he heard and all, so I texted him for his part of money to take the baby out which he sent and asked we go our separate ways. I was pained because this person has been violent towards me years ago and I forgave him. The problem now is do I go ahead with the abortion and just let him go or beg him and send people to him so I can at least heal emotionally and have my baby if possible (taking care of the baby is not a big deal). I just treated fibroid, I am scared it will take time to get another baby, or should I take the baby out and put my hope on God I will get another one. And lastly, he kept some money with me which is locked and he offered I take 20% of the money which I said no.
Should I just give him the money back, take out the baby and move on, or I apologize again and see if I can be forgiven, or I hold on to the whole of the money because he lied to me and wasted my time for the second time. I hold on to the money and let him go.
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