I met this girl a few years ago, she was good looking and well behaved. Along the line, we got into a relationship. After some while, I told her I don’t want to date for relationship sake, I want to build my future with her. We made promises and she accepted. After some months, I asked her if she was still talking to her ex, she said no. I asked again if she was still talking to her ex on three different occasions, she said no. I accepted and believed her. Two years later she started behaving strange. I got surprised and got this feeling that something was wrong somewhere. I was forced to hack into her Facebook account and found out she was still talking to her ex. I got mad and felt disappointed. I decided to send a message to the so-called ex, trying to find out if there was anything going on between both of them. Along the line, the so-called ex suspected something and called her to ask if she was the one texting him on her Facebook account. She said no and told the so-called ex to play along, that she knew it was me. Imagine wickedness. So I exchanged contacts with the so-called ex to get more information about what’s really going on between both of them.
The next day I called the so-called ex with an annoying mind, telling him why would she be dating 2 guys at a time and ghost it, that I’m so disappointed with everything. I told the so-called ex that this was a lady I gave my all to. I asked the so-called ex that this is so bad about women, that I wasn’t expecting such from her, that I’ll stop talking to her, that I’m done with her. But inside of me, I didn’t mean it. After the long conversation with him, I called her and asked about what I noticed. She gave me different answers, I wasn’t getting, but I still forgave her and acted as if I didn’t exchange contacts with the so-called ex. Not knowing the so-called ex would go and show her all our conversations just to spoil her mind or something. After some weeks, I told her to block that guy, that I don’t want any conversation from them. She said ok and promised to do that. After a few days she started bringing up the issue back, I mean the so-called ex, telling me I’m evil, that I made her lose her best friend, that he was her favorite person to share her problems with, being her so-called ex. That she doesn’t want to continue anymore, that she’s done with me.
I got confused, sad, heartbroken, and betrayed. Please y’all, can your ex be your best friend? After putting my efforts into the relationship, most times I apologized to her whenever we had any misunderstanding, no matter who’s at fault. I made sure I kept her happy and provided for her regardless of how difficult things might be, still yet she didn’t acknowledge that. Please could this be love? Because of her, I ignored many girls because I didn’t want to cheat. Please I’m down and weak, I haven’t been myself for days, please I need help, I’m losing my mental health. Meanwhile, I asked her to give me the main reason why she broke up, if it was because I hacked into her account, or because of the words I used when I was talking to her so-called ex/best friend, or how I acted when she came over to my house during the time I found out she was still talking. Yet she didn’t give me an answer. I even got to the level that I needed to involve my family in it, still yet no way.
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