So me and this guy have been dating 3 years. This guy cheats on me but he always monitors everything I’m doing. He hides his phone somewhere around the house to record my conversations when I am alone in his room. He hacked my WhatsApp and Facebook. This is someone that still talks to his ex and DMs every girl. Since I met him I have never cheated on him. Fast forward to last year December, this guy slapped me because he said I didn’t greet his cousin on time. I was so angry I bit him back. Then he started lying to people that he didn’t touch me. He begged me and I just gave him a last chance. I used to come to his place, spend a few days and go back to my house. I forgot a new wig in his house only for me to come back and find out the wig had disappeared. Later on he confessed that he brought a girl to his house and she stole it. I was so angry. This guy still said it was because I didn’t use to give him sex, that’s why he cheated. I forgot to add this: he is the one that got me my phone. Any little issue he would say I should give his phone back. So that day he broke the back of the phone.
Last month he said he wanted to check my chats. I told him he can’t come with force to collect my phone just because he was the one that got me the phone. He started dragging the phone. I told him to remove my SIM for me, which he did. Then he smashed the phone on the ground. That was the second time he spoiled my phone. I used my money to buy another iPhone for myself. He started sending people to beg me. After one week he did not even feel remorse for his actions, he only said he had gotten me another iPhone. I just told him to hell with him and his iPhone. I told him I can’t date a violent person. I was so happy I have money to get whatever I want for myself. This guy for dey do me anyhow. I left him already.
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