I don’t know, I am ashamed of myself as I am writing this. I have a boyfriend, although he is not financially stable, I do love him. Then coming to my story, we don’t stay in the same community, although it’s not far from where I am based. A friend of mine told me he was cheating on me, which caused an argument between my boyfriend and I. So there is this boy that’s asking me out, of which I told him no because I heard he has a girlfriend, and he told me the relationship is not working because she cheated and all that, and he kept talking her down which is a red flag to me. And in all these, my boyfriend and I were having issues, so this guy and I were seeing each other but just as friends, no sex, no kissing, nothing. But one of the days we saw, something happened and I told him it was a mistake because I was emotionally down, but he kept begging me for a relationship which I said no. Then my friend from the village where my boyfriend resides called me to tell me that my boyfriend is cheating on me. When she told me, I told her that someone had already told me and my boyfriend and I are having issues,
so I proceeded to tell her about my affair with this new boy, not knowing she was recording me. And everything I told her as a friend she kept chats of, not knowing she is friends with the girlfriend of that boy too. She started telling me about how toxic that boy is to his girlfriend, that he knows them, bla bla, and I responded with I don’t want to have anything with such a person if that’s how he is. So this new boy that has a girlfriend kept pestering for a relationship, I told him that here is what I heard about you from my friend and he knows my friend. I told him that everything should just die there, let’s forget about everything. The next morning he texted his girlfriend, scolding her that he is hearing what she tells people about him, and she told my friend. My friend texted me shouting at me that what she told me I told the guy. I tried calming her down and she started pouring insults on me, of which I didn’t say anything to her because I understood her anger, only for her to tell me she has recordings of my calls and conversations and she is going to ruin everything for me. I felt cold. Not only did this girl not send the recording to my boyfriend,
Omo my boyfriend then asked about the evidence of him cheating on me, that she said this girl denied, saying she thought it’s my boyfriend but it’s not my boyfriend. Wow. My boyfriend told her to end the matter there, that let the whole issue die, but no, she and friends started insulting me and I insulted them back because at this point I was already angry because there is proof that girl cheated, so why is she acting like a saint? She even sent a recording of where I said I can’t be with such a toxic guy to that other boy and he turned against me and started insulting me. I just blocked him and deleted my WhatsApp, and my boyfriend said I should come to him so that we would talk things out. The damage is done already, but these girls kept messaging my boyfriend with different numbers insulting him, calling him broke. I started wondering, is it just because of that issue or there is more? I don’t know again. My boyfriend threatened them that if they keep texting him, something bad will happen and blocked them, only for that stupid boy to text my boyfriend asking him what he meant that something bad will happen.
My boyfriend then replied him with a voice note saying, “Are you mad? You slept with my girlfriend and still had the guts to write me?” This boy and his friends posted the voice note. Omo I know I am at fault here but Omo I don’t know how I feel, that’s why I shared this story. What do I do? My boyfriend did not reply them again, he said he forgave, which I am not sure of, but my mind is a mess. I don’t know, I feel like ending myself. I can’t even eat. I cry everyday.
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